Own Your Wealth: A Financial Journey for Single, Child-Free Women

By Julie Meissner 

There’s something powerful about walking your own path—no partner, no children, just you and your ambitions, dreams, and choices. It can feel expansive, like an open road with no set destination. But when it comes to financial planning, that open road can feel a little more like uncharted territory.

For single women with no children, financial independence isn’t just a goal—it’s the framework for nearly every decision. There’s freedom in that, yes. But also weight. You are your own safety net, your own Plan B. And that reality can shape how you view risk, savings, and the future in deeply personal ways.

Opportunity: Freedom to Define Your Own Financial Goals

One of the most empowering aspects of being single and child-free is the freedom to define success on your own terms. You don’t have to plan around a partner’s career timeline or a child’s college tuition. You can align your financial plan entirely around what matters most to you—whether that’s early retirement, creative pursuits, charitable giving, or frequent travel.

Research supports this flexibility. According to research by the CFP Board, women’s top financial priority is ensuring living comfortably through retirement and not outliving their money. Other areas that women rate as high priorities include planning for caregiving expenses for a loved one, personal long-term care needs, and philanthropic giving.¹ For single women, this can translate into a more values-driven approach to financial planning—investing in personal growth, causes that matter, and experiences that bring joy rather than simply security.

Challenge: The Weight of Being the Sole Decision-Maker

But with independence comes the pressure of having no fallback. There’s no partner to share the burden of a financial emergency or lean on during unexpected health issues. You are, in every sense, your own backup plan. Investments provide the opportunity for women to grow their wealth in ways that income alone does not. However, women are often reluctant to actively plan for their financial future.

According to a study by Merrill Lynch and Age Wave, over 40% of women report that their biggest financial regret is not having invested more. On a positive note, for the women who do invest, most (77%) report feeling they’ll be able to save enough money to last them the rest of their lives.² For single women, it’s a psychological hurdle as much as a financial one: How do you plan boldly when you feel like you can’t afford a misstep?

Opportunity: Building Wealth on Your Own Terms

There’s satisfaction in knowing every dollar in your savings and investment accounts was earned, saved, and grown by you. Being intentional about wealth-building—whether through investing, business ownership, or real estate—can provide the resources needed not only to survive but also to thrive. While the wealth gap for women still exists, especially for women of color, more women are building significant financial security alone. According to the Federal Reserve, single women own a greater share of real estate than single men, and they are outpacing men in earning college and graduate degrees, which contributes to wealth-building potential.³

Challenge: Cultural Expectations and Invisible Costs

There’s also a quiet cost—often invisible. Social norms still tend to prioritize couples and families in areas like taxes, healthcare benefits, and even travel pricing. The so-called “singles tax” often means single individuals pay more for housing, insurance, or dining out. For example, according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, the average single person spends approximately $48,000 annually, of which $17,899 is allocated to housing. In comparison, the average married couple spends about $76,000 annually, of which $24,811 is spent on housing — $12,405.50 each. Married people living together spend nearly $5,500 less on housing expenses each year than single people do.⁴ It’s a reminder that financial planning for singles needs to account for structural challenges, not just personal choices.

Opportunity: A Simpler Estate Planning Process

Without the complexities of multiple beneficiaries, shared assets, or custody considerations, estate planning can be more streamlined. You’re free to leave a legacy that reflects your values—whether that’s supporting nieces and nephews, friends, or a favorite charity. Still, that doesn’t mean estate planning is optional. Without a clear directive, your assets could be distributed according to state laws rather than your wishes. Having a thoughtful estate plan also ensures your healthcare preferences and financial decisions will be respected if you’re ever unable to advocate for yourself.

Challenge: Navigating Longevity Alone

Solo aging is a rising trend. Statistically, women live longer than men. According to the CDC, the average life expectancy for women in the U.S. is 80 years—five years longer than for men.⁵ That’s more time to enjoy retirement but also more years to fund without the support of a partner or adult children.

Planning for long-term care, social connection, and support becomes vital—not just from a financial lens but from a lifestyle perspective. Who will advocate for you if you need help managing health or finances later in life? Many single women proactively form “care squads”—trusted friends, siblings, or professionals who can step in when needed. It’s a deliberate, empowering choice, but it requires planning in advance.

Finding Empowerment in Planning

At its heart, financial planning as a single woman with no children is an act of self-trust. It’s not about having all the answers but about making space for what matters most to you—and building a plan that honors that.

That could mean creating a fund for sabbaticals or artistic residencies. It could be investing in sustainable companies that align with your values. Or maybe it’s about ensuring that you can always live on your own terms, with security and grace. The beauty lies in crafting a path that is entirely, unmistakably your own. At Treehouse Wealth, we can help you find empowerment in financial planning.